Brilliant! Thank you, thank you, thank you. I spend a whole day trying to understand SQL Server (full version) yesterday and this is all I needed.
A few notes:
Point 9, right click & (you forgot to add this:) select Properties.
Point 6. If IIS (Internet Info Server) is not installed (on Win XP Professional, not Home edition), go to Control Panel | Add-remove programs and Add Windows Components & it is under there)
Point 14: Security, not the one under the new Database, but the one under your Server.