sorry I didnt reply sooner but I didnt see an email notification...
Under Admin > Site Settings > Advanced Settings my setup looks like this:
user registration = verified
Splash page = none
Home page = HOME
Login page = REGISTER <- this is a page I created with just an Account Login control... not included in the site menu... when set to none or any other page is uses the different page but still works the same way (only a login form, no registration form)
User page = none <- I'm not sure exactly what this is? is this the "registration" page setting, User page as in NEW User page? nope... tried setting it to my REGISTER PAGE and it still does the same thing...
I don't see a "registration page" setting here... am I in the right place?