OK - I've got this one....:-)
I just did that very same thing in my skin at http://demo.martinmoesby.com.
1st you have to add 2 solpartmenu controls to your skin.
The first control should have the RootOnly="true" attribute, the second control should have the level="child" attribute. Furthermore you could try the ForceDownLevel and ForceFullMenu attributes.
One major issue in this approach is that you cant get the to Admin menu without adding a bit of script in your Skins Page_Load() event..
I've solved this by adding this code to my skin :
<script runat="server">
Sub Page_OnLoad(ByVal sender As Object, ByVal e As System.EventArgs) Handles Me.Load
If dnnMenu.AdminMode Then dnnMenu.RootOnly = False
End Sub
</script>