After placing the Feedback module, not receiving the Feedback messages to my email, nor the feedback showing up in my the moderation list:
1) fixed my Host's smtp setting. On test, discovered that my login info was correct, but the test failed yet because yahoo didn't allow sending email from webserver. So I changed it to one that would.
2) Updated the Feedback module
3) Deleted the feedback from my page and placed it again. Tried sending myself something, and then went into moderation and saw all of my past comments were there waiting for me to be approved!
Some where between the smtp update, feedback update and delete/replacing, and sending of new feedback, it began to work as expected and everything just up and appeared ???