for auto login, you'd need the IIS settings to use integrated windows, and remove anon from the windowssignin.aspx - this is for vers 4.x I believe and previous versions used a different setup (WinLogin.aspx). I am finding out the hard way that many tips do not apply to 4.x based on .net 2.0 (such as RDudley's mixed mode fixes and others posted here).
Once you have these set, basically forcing hte NTLM dialog, then add the site to the "Local Intranet Sites" (not trusted). It should then auto-login when using a machine on the domain. I had to undo this, because it kept logging me off as host and giving me errors on permissions (since my domain account only has admin rights, not host).
Hope this helps. I did not have to touch the webconfig file at all to get this working, so you may have to re-comment the settings you changed. Tam has a post earlier that details the settings.