i have resolve this issue well and the answer is very simple that select the Layout option at the top where view, edit and layout is present at the top you will get the drop down under the action button 

SO finally the solution is like this 

Change your contianer action tocken tag like this 

<dnn:ACTIONS runat="server" ID="dnnACTIONS"ProviderName="DNNMenuNavigationProvider"/>

and select the Layout Radio button at the left top of the page to view the action button drop down 

Regards 

Rashid Bilgrami 

can you please send me the link and the temp login info at rashidbilgrami@hotmail.com let me check for it

I just tried editing the ascx file using the info above and now I get an error saying Unknown server tag 'dnn:ACTIONS'

Thoughts?

thanks,

John